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SEDUCING A CANCER

By Stella Woods, 01-11-2009

Should you ever wish to entice a Crab out of his or her shell….read on!

TIPS FOR MEN
It's hard to get a Cancer to leave home so try a surprise visit with a bunch of flowers. Most Cancer women need little encouragement to cook dinner so if you're asked to stay, don't turn the invitation down. If you're good at fixing things, offer to mend that shelf or cut the grass. She will be impressed! And if ever a woman loved lingerie, it’s a Cancer woman. Not the tacky, flesh revealing type, the sensual, soft, silky, lacy style. Silver jewellery should go down well as Cancer is ruled by the silvery moon. In fact, a moonlit walk in the park or country might just set the scene for a night of passion!

TIPS FOR WOMEN
Let him cook for you or return the favour. Romance and food have always gone well together and if you add a good bottle of wine and some soft lighting, your Cancer man will positively glow. If you're less romantically inclined, try DVDs, beer and take-away snuggled up on the sofa. Who could resist? Invite him on an outing with your nephew and nieces - he loves children and will admire a partner who is caring and kind. Try a picnic in the park or an afternoon at the movies with an expensive bar of chocolate. Cancer men like anything that appeals to the senses and isn't that what you're trying to do?

All about Cancer
From the 21st June to the 22nd July the Sun travels through cardinal water sign Cancer. Cancer is the fourth sign of the zodiac with keywords “I feel” and “I fluctuate”. Cancer’s symbol is the crab, an instinctive creature dwelling in the watery depths in the safety of its shell. Cancers are extremely sensitive. They love to mother and nurture others and have a strong attachment to home, family and community. At best Cancers are in touch with their feelings and display kindness, love and compassion. They are highly emotional, usually love food and have a reputation for taking care of friends, family and workmates. Negatively, the Cancer individual can be moody, dependent, illogical, manipulative and insecure. Cancer rules the stomach, breasts and solar plexus. When Cancers are out of balance they suffer from digestive upsets, water retention and breast problems. The Cancer colours are silver and pastel shades and women born under this sign often love antique jewellery and lingerie! Cancer is ruled by the Moon, so those with a prominent Moon in their chart often display Cancer qualities. Cancer’s greatest lesson is to live in the present and to deal with their feelings of fear and insecurity.

How to handle a Cancer
With kid gloves. Cancers are extremely sensitive, so even if they appear tough or unemotional, don’t be fooled by that crabby exterior. Food is always a good ploy – feed them or let them feed you. And don’t force them to go far from home or out of their comfort zone. This is a sign that seriously loves and thrives on home turf. Finally show some vulnerability yourself – the Crab is genuinely kind and caring and loves to offer tea and sympathy.